Do you think you are ready for this? yes, you have met his parents, he has paraded you like a trophy and you think you belong to him and at last, he is yours. I frankly have to ask, Is your union going to glorify God, Is it going to be Registered in Heaven as it is on earth? Is he part of your destiny or your goal in life? Does your ambition tally with his? Most especially does he complete you?
It is very difficult to face the truth about all these questions when we say or think we are in love with our partners, but the truth is, the response to all these questions determines the life span and happiness of the relationship or marriage.
We are tired of divorces, separation and baby breakups in our home…
So, before you step forward to say I DO, check out and understand yourselves and how well you mash-up.
I have been asked if the partner is a TOTAL OPPOSITE in likes or career choices, does that make him WRONG? I will tell you, YES and NO:
YES: if these differences cause a constant fight between you both and lead to irrational behaviour;
NO: these differences could be the spice of the relationship: making it fun and memorable.
The method of validation is based on the HOLY SPIRIT, the bible says, he would teach us what we don’t know or what we need to know, connecting us to the will of the father. so for every decision about the greatest agreement on earth (marriage) turn to GOD.
Action Point
look into your relationship and check if it glorifies God, if Not, GET OUT!!! before you say I DO.
On Your Mark? Set? STOP!!!
